Why Wait?

In the words of Rascal Flatts,

"The stars can’t line up any straighter
Let’s do it now and think about it later
Why wait another minute
For somethin’ we should’a done yesterday?
I know a little church
With a preacher who could hook us up right away
Love don’t need a reason
Baby I don’t see how I could love you anymore than I do today
So why wait?"

This is exactly how I feel. Sometimes I get so frustrated that we haven't set a date yet. I know that it's not Nate's fault, or even my fault for that matter. We just simply don't have the money to plan a wedding. I've priced so many venues and for the wedding we want, it is going to cost $7,000-$10,000. That is just ridiculous. We are both in school now and it is going to take us so long to save up this much money. I just want a wedding. I just want a marraige. I just want to be married to Nate, and live together, (or even just in the same city), and plan things together, and think about having kids. Sometimes I think about eloping...but that is not what I truly want and I know I would regret it down the road.

In case anyone is interested, here is the wedding website I started when I thought we would be getting married next year. www.mywedding.com/NateandJayme Obviously it doesn't have very much info since we don't have anything set. But in case you want to look.

Ugh. Why are weddings soo expensive!!